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Microwave Relationships In our fast paced society we've become accustomed to quickly getting
what we want, when we want it, to instantly satisfy our needs and desires.
We have fast food restaurants, fad diets, to quickly lose the weight that
we gain from eating at the fast food restaurants, and the greatest invention
of all time..., the microwave oven, which can provide us with a hot meal
in 5 minutes or less! More E-Question Responses: I knew Don for a year, I had a secret crush -- isn't High
school fun......but it took him a while to realise I was right for Him....I
knew pretty quick, but, my knowledge is limited here. I havent dated in
31 years and then I was NOT. Ms Popularity I'm thinking that this isn't really a time issue.. I believe
that it is an issue about being ready to be in a relationship.. cause
if you aren't willing to give it your all then you aren't ready to be
in one. It takes two! Speaking personally about myself... |
E-Question: How long do you think it takes to get to know someone, before you feel that your relationship could work? Send your response to
Gregg Millett I do believe that it takes a long time to get to know anyone enough to have a friendship with that person. It would depend on the people first. I strongly believe
that a couple should live together for one year before making the final
commitment to marriage. Hey, if you can live with each others different
moods, different tastes, etc, then you have a good chance of having a
long lasting relationship. Personally, I don't think there is a definitive answer
to this because various people are looking for different things in a relationship,
some love, some money, some security and some just for companionship........so
I will say.......who knows, only those individuals will know. I feel it depends on the two people involved. In my case, I am very cautious about such things, so it
takes relatively long before I can feel that it could work. I think that it is different for everyone, but like you I am very cautious. I have been burned to many times and lost to much. Just listen to your heart and give it time. If its right you will know. You know I never really get involved answering the e-quetions
but this one is right up my alley.I met a man online 4 months now...we
talked for about a month before we met. Even as i was talking to him on
line, I felt and instant connection. When we met I felt like I had known
him for a long time. If you would have asked me about this before I met
this man. I would have told you that the way I was feeling was crazy.
Even now I am not sure I understand it. But one thing I do know is how
I feel about him, both my heart and mind tells me that this is right.
We have so much in common and share the same goals and values on life.
We have talked about marriage -- something I never thought I would be
doing again. Sometimes I think that we have to follow our hearts, sure
I might get burnt and there is a small part of me that worries about that,
but almost everything in life has a risk. Anyway that is my 2cents here....I
guess it all has to be based on the person/persons involved and has to
feel right. |